Once upon a time, lived 3 good buddies.
An extremist who practices logicism, a dreamer who can't seems to have his own stance of opinion and finally an idealist who just wants to take things easy in his life long pursue of supremacy.
First off, how could the extremist be the best fren of the dreamer u ask?
Second of all, they seem to be 3 majorly different characteristic of life, what bonds their eternal frenship?
The extremist, one who is objective towards every conversation, wishing to conduct a fruitful conversation where logic perceived.
On the other hand, the dreamer is rather subjective towards ... er... towards anything i guess.
He is willing to comprehend with others in morphing into a suitable life form to fit into the conversation.
Finally, the idealist, filled with ideas, but what he had in mind is simple, to achieved his life long goal of being one with the legends, but in the process he prefers to take things easy and to stay calm and relax at all cause.
Being raised in different eviromental condition, 3 very different men were given birth to.
And so happens, fate brought these 3 different men into a crossroad of their life, where they 3 met and learn about one another.
One day, the extremist got in a fight with the idealist. It all started with a simple line of "my head hurts" in cantonese that is, while the extremist is conducting his lecture of logicism.
The extremist made an attempt to pass judgement upon the ill idealist claiming that he is nothing but an ignorant fool of society.
Confused and pissed idealist, fought back in chasing after the very actual reasoning behind the extremist's judgement. He did it in anger of course.
The extremist exclaimed that no matter what the idealist have in reason of exclaiming a line of "his head hurts" is simply rude towards one who is conducting a conversation.
The idealist cools down and hope to reason with the extremist. Finally they both came with a mutual understanding and they drank their ale in peace.
I wished it was all that simple.
Dear extremist,
Respect is indeed mutual. But have u ever come to a consideration if u are mutually respecting others of their opinions and state of feelings and trauma of certain sensitive issues?
Dear extremist,
Both dreamer and idealist apprectiates your opinion and advise oncertain aspect of issues which u deem right. But sometimes u pushed too far. What differs between advise and excessive mockery is merely seperated by a thin silk bra lace.
Drilling in personal claims into one's thinking is definitely not a form of advise.
U have put in mental brute force.
In this example, u are not respecting others but only people u deem worthy of ur respect.
Contradiction comes in when u wish that respect could be given to u at all cause yet u made a wade attempt in preserving mutuality.
What deems u the worthiness of judging others while u urself contradicts ur very own logic?
Both dreamer and idealist tried to pass on our opinions, yet most seems to be weakly supported thus never placed in dear extremist's consideration.
But there are times where you; yourself never gave us a chance to slice in our very piece of idea into your plate of logic.
People are complicated molecular structures formed on earth. What complicates us would definitely be our power generating instability.
A simple kiss, a simple hug or merely a simple call could easily turn a mice into a lion.
Yet at certain occasions, a simple thought, a simple criticism could bring the lion lower than ant itself.
These are all caused by the very same factor. Feelings.
Dear extremist, by obstructing our fruitless attempts of presenting our very own idea, we can very well fall into a state of depression and shaking our very weak foundation of confidence made out of 2nd class timber.
You may not notice on the way u treated people as we never seldom speak with a mirror projection of ourselves.
People are different we exclaimed. So let it be we advised. Dear extremist, you do stereotype. In a way, u gave the least respect to strangers who dress unaccordingly using ur basis of reasoning to judge.
And what made ur reasonings the most precise and comprehensive?
There are never the best answer, nor the best idea and definitely, the most correct thought.
All above are merely the best solution for the very instance.
It is because of differences among human, we would be able to perceived higher understanding of the universe. By trying to unify human's thought, we are limiting ideologies, philosophies, and ideas.
Why the silly attempt of wishing that everyone is the same?
Or have u fallen into deep into the quicksand of the majority populace?
U are also giving in towards the fear of being different.
Are u not trying to convert friends into the so called "different" minority?
By trying to convert them, u are building them into a larger minority, which leads to majority.
I hope you understand what i mean.
If respect is above all mutual... I wish the mutuality lasts.
The idealist only threw temper due to his extreme tireness and frustration. He only went to relax, never the mean of being judged or exclaimed to be rude by his dearest of frens.
All these have been unspoken thoughts u obstructed through out our life long conduct of conversations. And let me claim that all happens to my very own personal thoughts. Never the dreamer's involvement.
Nah, u should have guessed it.
Something never chg, the dreamer is still above stilts, never before on still grounds where he can support a definite idea.
Maybe that is what made him special.
Maybe the one who truly understands the beauty of reasoning is him?
Take care.